tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52207810351474836432024-03-05T05:08:42.715-05:00RUN WITH THE FREE"At the proper time you will reap a great harvest if you DO. NOT. GIVE. UP." Galatians 6:9Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.comBlogger76125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-5116148520415684722010-06-20T21:51:00.007-04:002010-06-21T07:37:08.456-04:00"You are not alone in this, but I can't move the mountains for you." -Mumford & SonsCaroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-12513686185015309032010-05-02T09:15:00.004-04:002010-05-02T09:34:27.857-04:00Goodbyes.I've been living in slow motion, making myself aware of every moment as it passes and reaching out and claiming it for my own. So this is a slow motion account of the last few days.<br /><br />This was the last weekend of freshman year. (And what a weekend it was.) Two finals, dinner date with Shannon, stretching out on the Quad and talking with Morgan, Alice, Claire, and everyone else who passed by, techno party with the Delts, dancing one last time with Morgan and Taylor, art, ramen and coffee, watching the moon like it's a drive-in movie, taking a Saturday mini-road trip to South Haven, donuts and coffee, homework on the beach, onion rings from Clementine's, coffee and burgers, pulling off the road to watch the sunset, taking 25 minutes to get from Simpson to Olds watching the clouds and trees and wind and rain, talking with Anne on my floor for an hour, brushing my teeth with Roomz, tucking each other in and then my favorite thing in the world: "Goodnight, Roomz." "Goodnight, Roomz." "I love you." "I love you too."<br /><br />(I love the whole concept of roommates. It's like automatic family. Married or not, I never want to live alone. Ever. I too much enjoy cleaning out the fridge and brushing my teeth with another human being.)<br /><br />And this is the last Sunday morning of freshman year. Woke up early, prayed, stretched, made coffee for me and Roomz, brushed my teeth for forever, studied until Roomz woke up, hung out in the bathroom (in Olds this is a completely legitimate way to spend one's time) talking to Mabs and Mary, packed away the hundreds of notes that I've received and saved this year, watered the sunflowers on my windowsill. And I'm listening to the Avett Brothers and the wind's in my hair blowing through the windows and Roomz and I are drinking coffee.<br /><br />And I love this.<br />I have loved freshman year, the newness, the new faces.<br />I have loved Olds.<br />I have LOVED my chill, funny, friendly, generous, cuddly roommate.<br /><br />And I have loved living slowly.<br />I think Jack & Dorothy would be proud.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-25868190627715887922010-04-29T00:41:00.009-04:002010-04-29T00:50:50.858-04:00Art.I have a poster hanging up in my dorm room that I made a couple months ago which says: "MAKE ART as an outpouring expression of God's grace in your life." Tonight I turned my dorm room floor into an art studio: <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI32h8IfE0f0BiloMkMwa3A6L5alSDEnXPY5bfHdhU543JVaHhTWeFNm6-vowMY4gQIXYsCAh87N_9To7kZU1EzyPMbGovBf_V2AhURwrAqKqdDL5q5qxr1XnpAyyxmFUgNaVLRFRfjG9y/s1600/Photo+174.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI32h8IfE0f0BiloMkMwa3A6L5alSDEnXPY5bfHdhU543JVaHhTWeFNm6-vowMY4gQIXYsCAh87N_9To7kZU1EzyPMbGovBf_V2AhURwrAqKqdDL5q5qxr1XnpAyyxmFUgNaVLRFRfjG9y/s400/Photo+174.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5465415290948229890" /></a> And made strong coffee:<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-xGOuDTYJaJ_-nJ3BUpIdaCjmq3AQn7Xoyk8t_h9S4QjB1JFuqaEF6flbVyLv2GwX8ta6Z98ngG351RswGy7lBpSpP08Q7ol1YeOGPCXniDWb0STTDlqEMnNfZZvORkAZJk_DmhyphenhypheniV7zx/s1600/Photo+175.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-xGOuDTYJaJ_-nJ3BUpIdaCjmq3AQn7Xoyk8t_h9S4QjB1JFuqaEF6flbVyLv2GwX8ta6Z98ngG351RswGy7lBpSpP08Q7ol1YeOGPCXniDWb0STTDlqEMnNfZZvORkAZJk_DmhyphenhypheniV7zx/s400/Photo+175.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5465415544763201170" /></a> And made some sad art: <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-pMvsJpa8AjJXuK4FoW3tE7W_5CZi0L4sjYvO14wLtYDfXHLOldmzgVNRQOH5IhjD5MnCbYJBf4rftpyxSqehCIXFEVlwrA-Cis3FwirKd9cN2LfRYRt1XxGy8AgQsKUQn3BgqoLBIaBt/s1600/Photo+171.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 304px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-pMvsJpa8AjJXuK4FoW3tE7W_5CZi0L4sjYvO14wLtYDfXHLOldmzgVNRQOH5IhjD5MnCbYJBf4rftpyxSqehCIXFEVlwrA-Cis3FwirKd9cN2LfRYRt1XxGy8AgQsKUQn3BgqoLBIaBt/s400/Photo+171.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5465415712594648658" /></a> And I made some happy art. Art like this: <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUt1umnoMZKtfuD1fgWRMma3WWSjY0Fhg9WKvUSN7v8V7MmAKCfV1fFZak2DTjOBkW_c4AiXGZCGa6HVTLgOMA6KqhyQ_GKSI-TPL0u45mDx9CD6DX6OJ1vr1QpcjLVizbYwkPM9XXio8u/s1600/Photo+176.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 294px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUt1umnoMZKtfuD1fgWRMma3WWSjY0Fhg9WKvUSN7v8V7MmAKCfV1fFZak2DTjOBkW_c4AiXGZCGa6HVTLgOMA6KqhyQ_GKSI-TPL0u45mDx9CD6DX6OJ1vr1QpcjLVizbYwkPM9XXio8u/s400/Photo+176.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5465415943265606626" /></a> This one says "but you will find slowbreathing sleepyhappy REST." And more consolation art like this: <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg3i1CDVsExC3R1uzFI-lx0J36FiLnGPiMa_4MI-k_hqKJEpQ11MIefCpYyKa7SwwHK8Rd4TrCJkUiZsW9p8hmz9wKFyZDyguhVuYYaqNcp204BSYQl1aW3RaGW8DTIbPSVdP_l4FPQ38U/s1600/Photo+177.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 286px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg3i1CDVsExC3R1uzFI-lx0J36FiLnGPiMa_4MI-k_hqKJEpQ11MIefCpYyKa7SwwHK8Rd4TrCJkUiZsW9p8hmz9wKFyZDyguhVuYYaqNcp204BSYQl1aW3RaGW8DTIbPSVdP_l4FPQ38U/s400/Photo+177.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5465416153379884482" /></a> Which says "And REAL God-breathed inspiration." And I made funny scatterbrained art for a friend. And I thought much about future art projects and the fact that people here constantly ask me why I'm a political science major instead of an art major. And I thought about self-expression and how "eros" means oneness and about two toothbrushes in a single cup on the sink. And I thought about The Republic and grace and words and Uncle Jack and Aunt Dorothy and ripples in lakes. And Megan sang me songs. And I defined myself in color.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-6968876957049623802010-04-28T10:36:00.004-04:002010-04-28T10:43:53.666-04:00Wednesday morning without classes.I woke up at 9, sun streaming through the windows, my little sunflowers growing toward it on the windowsill, tangled in a sea of white-and-orange sheets and blankets. I threw on my favorite roommate hoodie (Roomz and I are practically married and we share clothes like none other), made a huge pot of coffee, carted my Bible and weathered copy of The Republic and my laptop and my coffee down the hall, and snuggled up in the nook. All morning I've been digging deep into the 6 pages of The Republic that provide the basis for my entire philosophy paper. Sunshine + Coffee + Plato. I love it. Tonight, after dinner with Megan (every interaction with Megan feels like a visit to the New York City MOMA), Shannon and I are doing our collaborative art project: I make the art, she photographs the art, and our friends are the canvases. Pure magic. It's going to be beautiful.<br /><br />I thank God for this day.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-74911228488011998742010-04-26T14:54:00.009-04:002010-04-26T17:24:43.608-04:00Confidence."I like the way you see, the way you connect things and express yourself. I like your consciousness of 'man standing in need', how comfortable you are with human finiteness and the grayer areas and the commonplace and The Real. And I like what you're seeing in all of that. I know that all of this seems like a mess right now, but you know where you're going and what you want this to look like and where you want to bring it to rest. Just keep pushing it toward that point, toward your vision. You always have a great vision. Just be confident, Caroline," said my English professor this afternoon.<br /><br />He was talking about my final English paper. <br />Or I think he was.<br />Maybe.<br />Maybe not.<br />Either way: it meant a <span style="font-style:italic;">lot</span> more to me than simple editing advice.<br /><br />He said it again as I walked out the door: "Just be confident, Caroline. Just be confident in what you're doing. You know where you want this to lead."<br /><br />"Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace in time of need." -Hebrews 4:16.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-70319980641622781642010-04-24T10:05:00.005-04:002010-04-24T10:06:54.552-04:00(I wish.)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjloCtre1gM8W07x4tZNfV8zGd7lQtfxlI8-NFziTLKFGr_85ryrEaeXwpZIPfB-lUdm3LlxN_TI3LGlPLK4tnd8C7KQfJPZmriotrOdX1UkqNQQR6EsaTfFX_Ytc4VjToyBfcenTxUWnj/s1600/9633_531950047558_187702302_31244105_5637304_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 302px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjloCtre1gM8W07x4tZNfV8zGd7lQtfxlI8-NFziTLKFGr_85ryrEaeXwpZIPfB-lUdm3LlxN_TI3LGlPLK4tnd8C7KQfJPZmriotrOdX1UkqNQQR6EsaTfFX_Ytc4VjToyBfcenTxUWnj/s400/9633_531950047558_187702302_31244105_5637304_n.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5463705177454919842" /></a>Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-480686101304397302010-04-20T21:57:00.015-04:002010-04-20T22:34:00.651-04:00The moon and things.Tonight the moon swept me off my feet. I thought about my love for the moon and stars and my preoccupation with incorporating both into my art. It got me thinking more about what my art/words/relationships/daily life <span style="font-style:italic;">says</span>.<br /><br />There is a photographer whose work I really liked until about four months ago. Four months ago was when she started compulsively posting photographs of her and her boyfriend. Don't misunderstand: they are beautiful, envy-inducing photographs of their very sweet, deep relationship. <br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">However.</span> <span style="font-weight:bold;"></span></span><br />(And that is a huge however.) <br />She used to photograph <span style="font-style:italic;">things</span>: rainy days, grocery stores, homeless people, patterns of light on the floor, old radios, people jumping, little girls laughing in red wagons. She used to say <span style="font-style:italic;">things</span>. Now all I see is the same pose, the same cute expression, the same hands holding the same hands. I don't get it. After all, I'm guessing that he fell in love with her for the same reasons I fell in love with her photography. Those photographs--before Boy took center stage--spoke of simple grace, deep wisdom, love of Christ, hope, joy, whimsy, everyday adventures. As soon as they started photographing themselves holding hands, her photographs stopped talking. Her art stopped saying the things that brought them together in the first place.<br /><br />I want to say <span style="font-style:italic;">things</span>. I don't just want to throw words and colors and emotions and actions out into the cosmos. I don't want to splatterpaint my feelings and impulses like meaningless abstract art. I want to do more than word vomit. I want to live with intention. And as much as I love holding hands, I don't want a single one of my relationships, platonic or otherwise, to stop saying <span style="font-style:italic;">things</span> either. <br /><br />I want my art to speak. I want my music to speak. I want the way I interact with strangers to speak. I want to say things worth the words I use to craft them. I want relationships (and, eventually, a marriage) rooted on a mutual passion for the real, the true, the bright, the bold, the meaningful, the brave, the lovely, the Cross. A relationship based on <span style="font-style:italic;">things</span>. <br /><br />Yes, someday I will likely make art influenced by my inloveness with someone. I'm not belittling that. But inloveness is not something worth dying for, worth living for, or worth photographing for four months straight. Hold hands, sure. But say things too.<br /><br />And take a look at that moon.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-46209139087205028792010-04-19T15:50:00.007-04:002010-04-19T16:25:22.580-04:00I will appeal to this.After 4 hours and a restless night, I had already started to cry on the walk to my 8AM class this morning. Yesterday was filled with tough decisions and today was bound to be tougher. From the moment I finished breakfast to the end of my 10AM philosophy class, I read and reread Psalm 77:<br /><br />I cry aloud to God, aloud to God and He will hear me.<br />In the day of my trouble I will seek the Lord; in the night my hand is stretched out without wearying; my soul refuses to be comforted.<br />When I remember God, I moan; when I meditate, my spirit faints.<br />You hold my eyelids open, I am so troubled that I cannot speak.<br />I consider the days of old, the years long ago.<br />I said, "Let me remember my song in the night; let me meditate in my heart." Then my soul made a diligent search:<br />"Will the Lord spurn forever, and never again be favorable?<br />Has his steadfast love forever ceased? Are his promises at an end for all time?<br />Has God forgotten to be gracious? Has He in anger shut up His compassion?" <span style="font-style:italic;">Selah</span><br />Then I said: "I will appeal to this: to the <span style="font-weight:bold;">years</span> of the right hand of the Most High."<br />I will remember the <span style="font-weight:bold;">deeds</span> of the Lord; yes, I will remember your <span style="font-weight:bold;">wonders</span> of old.<br />I will ponder all your <span style="font-weight:bold;">work</span>, and meditate on your <span style="font-weight:bold;">mighty deeds</span>.<br />Your <span style="font-weight:bold;">way</span>, O God, is holy. What god is great like our God?<br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">You are the God who works wonders</span>; you have <span style="font-weight:bold;">made known your might</span> among the peoples.<br />You with your arm <span style="font-weight:bold;">redeemed</span> your people, the children of Jacob and Joseph. <span style="font-style:italic;">Selah</span><br /><br />Now I'm drinking chai tea with soy milk in a leather chair next to the fireplace and writing papers like it's my job. Funny how things can turn around without turning around: I still have just as much work to do but after meditating on God's faithfulness all morning I am determined to live this day fully. He has been faithful in the past to His people through war, through storms, through death and loss. Won't He be faithful in my life for the next two weeks? God works wonders.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-77741545766576028022010-04-17T10:08:00.003-04:002010-04-17T13:20:33.876-04:00Come away with me.My roommate and I escaped to the leather couch in the back corner of the lone coffeeshop in downtown Hillsdale. I needed a break, and she needed a break, and both of us have been struggling to minister to people because of profound restlessness and frustration with the fact that we're. still. here.<br /><br />I need summer and I know it. I need my job back and my workaholic tendencies and I need to be uncomfortable in a place where I don't know everyone. I need to be stretched and I need to mature and I need the chance to be an adult. So I'm glad for summer and excited to see God's faithfulness through all the bleak spots. I crave perspective and distance and time and space and open air.<br /><br />But right now, I need to be <span style="font-style:italic;">here</span>. Here on the couch with Roomz listening to Norah Jones and thinking cozy, peaceful, sleepyhappy thoughts as term papers spill out of my fingers.<br /><br />God give me the grace to keep loving this place for as long as I'm here.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-90487650750355463942010-04-15T10:36:00.004-04:002010-04-15T10:41:17.683-04:00Sister Winter.<object width="400" height="225"><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=8012692&server=vimeo.com&show_title=0&show_byline=0&show_portrait=0&color=707070&fullscreen=1" /><embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=8012692&server=vimeo.com&show_title=0&show_byline=0&show_portrait=0&color=707070&fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="225"></embed></object><p><a href="http://vimeo.com/8012692">Shaped, Coloured</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/vsthebrain">VsTheBrain</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p> "All my gifts, I gave everything to you / <br />Your strange imagination /<br />You threw it all away / <br />Now my heart is returned to sister winter /<br />Now my heart is as cold as ice."Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-5559845080466686112010-04-14T23:10:00.005-04:002010-04-14T23:29:37.551-04:00Art.City.Speak.<span style="font-weight:bold;">City</span> has lately become its own language for me. In almost the same way that music can wordlessly express and define thoughts and emotions, I've been speaking and hearing more and more through cityscapes. If Plato was right, and city is the soul writ large, then all of this makes sense. This past weekend I took a walk by myself through Chicago and stood staring for long stretches of time at the angles of the streets, the curves of the crowds, the way buildings connect and disconnect. Sometimes I see emptiness in the city, sometimes light, sometimes all I see is hand-holding couples, sometimes all I see is people walking alone. Cityscapes are fluid and expressive. For this reason city has dominated my art lately. (More on that later?)<br /><br />This one line from Scatteredtrees has been repeating in rhythm with my heartbeat lately: "You know I'm trying to love beyond my years / Saying no to things I was always meant to need / Like saying what we mean." My little lovable liberal arts college has me worded-out sometimes. City has become a new form of expression: a way to express what I'm too tired to say outloud.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-85083135487780053632010-04-12T13:21:00.004-04:002010-04-12T13:24:53.366-04:00Grow.I am growing sunflowers on my windowsill. Just now I discovered that two of them sprouted over the weekend. If that isn't an example of God's grace in our lives, then I don't know what it is.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-10862189359113165902010-04-06T00:35:00.003-04:002010-04-06T00:39:41.026-04:00Before I forget.Tonight was just beautiful. I watched the stars come out one by one, then watched my friends walk back into my life one by one. Every star and every hello caught me by surprise. After thinking about interpersonal grace and everyday beauty for an entire week, it was indescribably good to watch everyone click back into place like puzzle pieces. A single thought kept washing over me, each time I hugged another person back into my life: "You are worth every risk I've ever taken." Now I'm sitting in the dark with my roommate watching the lightning like it's our own personal fireworks show.<br /><br />Could life get sweeter?Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-51513983437821954402010-04-04T14:11:00.002-04:002010-04-04T14:14:58.116-04:00Oh the times, they are a-changing.As I think about next year and its future changes, and how this summer will change the people I love best, I am challenged to remember what’s most important. Yesterday I found this song by Katie Herzig that I like, but I started thinking over the implications of the refrain: “I pray no one will find you / Oh I’ll stay right where I am / Until you come back / Don’t let me lose you / Before we have a chance to begin.” <br /><br />Hm. <br /><br />How tempting it is for me to have this attitude. Change means risk. It means potential loss. It means potential awkwardness come late August when we all sit down and talk about how we’ve grown, explain our mistakes, apologize for long absences without any communication, rave about how our opinions have changed. It means (and I hesitate to write this because it makes me nervous) that I might come back to find that my friends have outgrown me. It is altogether too easy for me to wish that my friends not change over the summer, that everything stays easy. It’s too easy for me to pray for static relationships.<br /><br />It’s clear where I’m going with this. “Speaking the truth in love, we are to <span style="font-weight:bold;">grow</span> up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.” -Ephesians 4:15-16. If I--my interests, my security, my emotions--were my primary concern in life, maybe I could let myself fear change. But because Christ is my primary concern, I am praying that my friends and I will grow this summer. Even if it means they outgrow me. <br /><br />For this reason, I have lately been signing many of my notes of encouragement “love unconditionally.” After all: I don’t love you because of the promise that I’ll get something in return, or the promise that we’ll be together forever, or the promise that you’ll love me back. No, I love you for your own sake and for Christ. I want you to grow, flourish, learn from your mistakes, pursue Christ at all costs and direct your daily life appropriately. <br /><br />Yes, it still leaves a lump in my throat to say goodbye and leave you to God’s unknown plan that, for the moment, doesn’t include me. But He is a skilled potter, and He will mould you into Christ’s likeness, and it will be a privilege for me to watch--even from a distance.<br /><br />Therefore, friends: I pray that the loveliest of strangers will find you and steal your heart. I’ll run relentlessly after Christ until you come back and even if you never do. And I want God to take you places even if I lose you, and despite all the awkward conversations that might result.<br /><br />(Love unconditionally.)Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-91252115074457272512010-04-03T11:36:00.005-04:002010-04-03T18:41:22.634-04:00Take a deep breath and.After 11 weeks of school, I was subconsciously desperate for a break. Just a breather. To gain a little perspective. To reassess habits that I've been forming, intentionally or accidentally. To decide the right way to finish out the rest of the semester. To realize that I am unsure about a lot of things. To acknowledge again that I am finite, vulnerable, breakable, not in control, and completely--<span style="font-style:italic;">completely</span>--able to get hurt.<br /><br />Yet: I've been relentlessly flooded with inspiration. I visited Philadelphia, said hello to Baltimore, and spent 27 hours in DC, and ended up clutching a vision in my hands, sitting there restlessly and spilling through my fingers. It's a vision for post-college life. A lot of it is made up of things I've said before: City. Local church. Urban ministry. Job out there in the big world that takes passion and perspective. Fostering a deep marriage if it happens. Loving a couple of crazy roommates if it doesn't. Throwing my life at something--something <span style="font-style:italic;">big</span>--with both hands. <br /><br />I've also been filling in a lot of the outlines: What exactly I want to be doing. The kinds of organizations and companies I want to be working with. Who I want to be. What I want to declare with my life (Behold the man). And I've seen polaroid snapshots of what it can look like: Amy sitting outside Peregrine talking about her art firm and the stresses of the job search and her funny husband who doesn't like ethnic food and can't salsa. Lawyers talking shop, talking politics, talking grace, telling duck jokes. Banana-and-yogurt-and-lukewarm-coffee in the sunny kitchen. Devotions on the fire escape. Early morning runs when 5:30AM is the only time you can fit it in. Traffic that challenges your patience. Just a handful of stars splattered up above city lights. The grace-filled mundane. Beauty in the funk. Hope in the backalleys. The Gospel in the everyday.<br /><br />And here's the thing. I want to forge my own vision. I've been doing it as an artist for years: taking a vision in my head, working at it with my hands until it is complete. It's never what I expect--it always surprises me--it always takes unexpected turns--but I like using my own hands to make it. <br /><br />I want to use every day to declare something: For I deliver to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, and that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-19658200078781449612010-03-29T20:14:00.003-04:002010-03-30T00:46:03.474-04:00Today.Open-faced fried egg sandwich. Grapefruit juice. Front porch. Porch swing with my coma blanket. Writing papers for American Heritage. Margo playing Coldplay on the piano. Justification through undeserved grace. Sending emails in code to Morgan. Telling the Gospel with my life. Cooking lessons from Shannon ("I'll make a kitchen woman out of you yet... Wait, actually no"). Homemade pizza. The Velveteen Rabbit. Writing out my testimony. Jumping into the creek. Twice. Massively cutting the top of my foot. Sitting with Shannon at her kitchen table drinking coffee. Grace and glory. An improv ballad on guitar and harmonica. .:Feeling alive:.<br /><br />Oh what will tomorrow bring?Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-56820918650038865492010-03-20T15:24:00.013-04:002010-03-20T16:31:24.332-04:00Life is one charming rouse for us lucky few.On Thursday afternoon Bond and I spontaneously had a picnic of banana pancakes and coffee in the courtyard of Olds. Every time a jet went by, cutting a trail across the <span style="font-style:italic;">perfect</span> blue skies, we both started laughing. The beauty of it surprised us. That afternoon it was the same. I watched the ripples of water on the pond and started laughing. Yesterday morning I stepped outside, looked left at the sun rising over the IM fields and started laughing. Everything is glinting and sparkling and glowing and in motion. Even the planet that we're standing on is spinning, twirling in a lilting way through the universe. Even right this moment, on the floor in my messy wreck of a room drinking lukewarm coffee with cold feet looking out at white skies with Shannon and Wesley both sleeping on the beds. (side note: I don't know why, but people frequently show up at my door and ask if they can take naps in my room, and considering how strangely uncomfortable and self-conscious human beings are about falling asleep in the presence of others, I'm hoping that this trend is a good indication of my character. Or perhaps just a quirk. But in truth, odd as it sounds: I have always wanted to be the welcoming kind of person around whom people feel safe falling asleep.) Just think about the complexities and harmonies of human voices! Just the thought makes me laugh in surprise. This weekend I heard the testimonies and asked for the stories of a lot of girls on campus that I don't get to talk to on a regular basis. I wondered how many other stories, how many other souls I have overlooked. It reminds me of that Willa Cather quote: "Sometimes a neighbor whom we have disliked a lifetime for his arrogance and conceit lets fall a single commonplace remark that shows us another side, another man, really; a man uncertain, and puzzled, and in the dark like ourselves." The world is covered in people in a hundred different shades of pride and self-expression and ambition and conviction. More Willa Cather: "The heart of another is a dark forest, always, no matter how close it has been to one's own." My floor is covered in paper and magazine clippings and pictures in a hundred different shades of color. I'm exhausted and haven't showered, yet life never ceases to be beautiful. Things are slipping into and out of place in perfect chaotic order, and every moment of this day has been written into it for all of infinity. Psalm 77 has been on my heart all weekend: "You are the God who works wonders." I heard frogs this week, and flew kites, and made art, and wrote papers, and scribbled in margins, and walked barefoot, and ran through mud, and watched stars come out one by one, and peeled oranges. God worked these things into existence and inwrote beauty and wonder in them. Therefore I never want to take for granted the way you laugh in surprise, the way your hands move, the way the sun feels on my face the second it comes out from behind a cloud. I never want to take for granted color and words and the underlying love and admiration that I can see in your face when you look at me sleepily. I never want to take for granted the relief in your voice when you say hello to me. I never want to take for granted the self-forgetting passion that rises in the voices of my professors when they start ranting on the importance of a single sentence. Grace has taught me to laugh in surprise. I hope to heaven that I don't miss another second of this life. "My hair smells of the wind and I move about this earth with a healthy disbelief." God works wonders.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-88726484278121803362010-03-16T23:14:00.004-04:002010-03-17T10:11:00.537-04:00.Life continues to be:<br />Strawberry popsicles.<br />The sound of frogs.<br />Sidewalk chalk.<br />Waking up this morning to see the sunrise even though I went to bed at 1.<br />Red fire hydrants.<br />Jet trails.<br />Frisbee at Lake Baw Beese.<br />Wind.<br />Lessons about encouraging others even when I am not encouraged.<br />Reminders about choosing joy.<br />Thursday morning 7 o'clock peanut butter surprises.<br />Kites.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-1234449433824725432010-03-15T15:18:00.019-04:002010-03-15T16:23:05.132-04:00[Clumsily] Growing into grace."She loves life and she lives it well / Her Savior shall proclaim Himself forever / I watch her, how she lives her life / So different from how I live mine / No equal in intensity / No rival in her passion / She is different / That smile wins me every time / Her laughter echoing with mine, eyes closed / Good day, bad, I can love her always / Never knew a love like this that never fluctuates." (Megan Moss)<br /><br />I've been watching and learning from my mentors Sarah and Shannon throughout their senior year: little me walking in their huge footsteps. We've been involved in the Hillsdale Christian Fellowship together, I've had countless coffee dates with both of them, we've prayed together, I've cried with them, we've shared testimonies, they've kept me accountable. I once spent four hours on Sarah's roof with her spilling out my guts and listening to her talk about sovereignty in disbelief. These women have fought me--relentlessly--on every attitude and opinion I ever thought I held. They've challenged me to pursue Biblical womanhood since before I knew what that meant.<br /><br />It startles me how far God has brought me from the place where I was six months ago. From barely attending church to genuinely thirsting after the Word. From resentment and indignation about Calvinist theology to this newfound humility and acceptance of God's sovereignty. From indifference about marriage and family to actively preparing my heart for my future responsibilities as a wife and mother. From scrambling to figure out "where I stood" on marriage and manhood and womanhood to <span style="font-style:italic;">pursuing</span> the Biblical model that I stubbornly rejected for so long. <br /><br />I could go on and on and on. I am definitely not the person I planned to become. On the contrary, I still have selfish moments when I wonder whether this is really "me." And, to be honest, it's not. It's not me. It's Christ. But, weighing all my options, I'd rather be like Christ.<br /><br />Today I realized something: at the close of my freshman year, after six months of watching Sarah and Shannon live their lives, they are now watching <span style="font-style:italic;">me</span>. This afternoon, as I brought Sarah up to speed on everything I've been thinking, out of the blue she told me to start praying for girls that I can disciple next year. She said that God has answered all her prayers for me, that I have exceeded her expectations, and that <span style="font-style:italic;">I</span> inspire <span style="font-style:italic;">her</span>. It blows me away. It's impossible to me that Sarah thinks I'm ready for this. Even after getting to know me and all my faults she <span style="font-style:italic;">still</span> thinks I can fill her role on campus? Impossible.<br /><br />Suddenly I have found that this mantle of Godly womanhood--something I barely realized only a few days ago that I even <span style="font-style:italic;">want</span>--has already been thrown over me. I'm covered in grace that doesn't fit right, grace too big for me, a reputation too good for me, wisdom too wise for me, grace-filled footsteps that don't make sense when you understand that I have two left feet. I don't know what to do with what I've been given. I don't know how to fill Sarah and Shannon's roles. I don't know how to be like Christ. I am startled to realize who I am suddenly preparing myself--who Sarah and Shannon have been preparing me--who God has been planning for me all along--to be. I am dumbfounded when it comes to how that will look like in my life. <br /><br />God's about to show me.<br /><br />"Let us then <span style="font-weight:bold;">with confidence</span> draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need." -Hebrews 4:16<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiC8k5YPK4S4TChXPhCyitGhqPbaOKulCvVi8g1JScrD9hX_Jpk1V4WTs0FqZWobrHI-GT8Tiv4poYAQFvraw5loDwHNBLI3gKCAKbwV0q1HgJQ0vyp_9utvlMkbMZCygtCafNmscOKGr1B/s1600-h/n67600641_30920426_7714.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:left;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 254px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiC8k5YPK4S4TChXPhCyitGhqPbaOKulCvVi8g1JScrD9hX_Jpk1V4WTs0FqZWobrHI-GT8Tiv4poYAQFvraw5loDwHNBLI3gKCAKbwV0q1HgJQ0vyp_9utvlMkbMZCygtCafNmscOKGr1B/s400/n67600641_30920426_7714.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5448954506208625282" /></a><span style="font-style:italic;">("She loves life and she lives it well / Her Savior shall proclaim Himself forever")</span>Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-72606608865822676392010-03-08T23:26:00.012-05:002010-03-10T08:28:54.732-05:00Be Engedi.I was reading Song of Solomon this weekend, when the woman refers to her lover as Engedi. <br /><br />Engedi is an <span style="font-style:italic;">oasis</span>. <br /><br />That single verse, that single word, knocked the wind out of me and captured my imagination. I want to <span style="font-style:italic;">be</span> that. I want to be a fresh, secure oasis even when the rest of life is a desert. Especially in the context of marriage. I want to be that one safe place, overflowing with grace and laughter and restfulness and respect and wisdom and encouragement and inspiration and joy and and risk and wonder and surprises and adventure. By the grace of God and as much as humanly possible, I want to be his Engedi. <br /><br />In the meantime, I've been throwing my heart at Christ. Recklessly. Relentlessly. And that is what I want to do every hour of every day for the rest of my life.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-65292307400089748842010-03-07T15:53:00.000-05:002010-03-08T23:25:59.827-05:00What I Thought I Wanted.A lot of my plans have gone askew these past 10 days. Papers didn't work out so well. A piano performance opportunity that I wanted so much it hurt went to someone else. I got a job as an RA in a dorm that I had never even really heard of before I stepped inside for my interview. Just things like that. <br /><br />And I will make no pretense that I have been enduring all of these mild disappointments with perfect joy and contentment. I wish I could say that, but I am not sanctified gracefully. However, I've been praying for joy and inspiration and God has given it over to me in abundance. I am genuinely excited for the rest of this semester, my sophomore year, and even this summer. I keep finding myself excited about the challenges ahead, the setbacks that will humble me, and experiences that will test and refine my dependence on Christ. That attitude is all God. Not me. Today I can say: I am thankful for everything that God has handed me these past few weeks. Truly thankful.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-14515030170325622282010-02-28T21:19:00.006-05:002010-02-28T21:29:22.087-05:00Make me aware.I've been stripped of all distractions.<br />I am rooted in The Now.<br />Now I am knowingly and willingly compelled to pour myself into the needs and opportunities and people whom God has carefully and uniquely grafted into my life. <br />This week, I want to be <span style="font-weight:bold;">aware</span> of the beauty, joy, brokenness, wretchedness, opportunities, needs, wonder, deficiencies, abundance around me. <br />I want to sing and shout the Gospel at everything life throws my way.<br />Luke 19:40 has been screaming at me all week: "I tell you, if these were silent, the very stones would cry out."<br />Seriously, with all the talent and blessings and personality and opportunities that God has spontaneously handed me these past 18 years (and these past 6 months especially), when it comes to worshipping God I am not about to be outdone by rocks.<br /><br />So be louder than the rocks.<br />Tell the Gospel with your life.Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-70850933718184410292010-02-26T18:19:00.009-05:002010-02-26T18:47:03.101-05:00Storms, storms, & being still.I've been thinking about my fight-or-flight tendency.<br /><br />Something about me has been really missing thunderstorms. One of my favorite things to do--ever--is run outside in the middle of a really fierce, windy, relentless thunderstorm. I love the wildness of it all. It's untamed and brutal and all it's own. Thunderstorms don't care about you; they rush on in a fit of self-expression. My thunderstorm crush spills out into my everyday life too. I love the struggle. I like solving problems and manning up in the face of challenges. I feel alive when there's a battle to be won, a person to be won over, a problem to be fixed, brokenness to address. But in my prayer life I've noticed how fiercely God's teaching me how to <span style="font-style:italic;">be</span>, not just to do. There's a time and place for fighting, but it's not at the foot of the Cross. God's teaching my heart peace. And I'm learning. Not gracefully, of course. I never learn gracefully. Peace isn't settling in slowly; it's ripping apart huge parts of my life and attitude and rebuilding it into something I've never seen before, at least not up close. I think I've seen this joy in other people's life--this joy dependent on Christ alone and not my own particular brand of happiness--but have never seen it in my own heart. It's there. Tiny, but growing. God's teaching me how to <span style="font-style:italic;">stay</span>, and to fight the battles he gives me without feeling the need to go out and look for new ones, and also a little something about which way I'm running.<br /><br />Here it is: I want to run <span style="font-style:italic;">toward</span> things, not away from things. I don't want to run from commitment. I don't want to run from the easy path. I don't want to run from security. I don't want to run from consistency. I don't want to run from stability. I tend to, I think. And, yes, God will continue to call me away from those things. But if He's not, it's not my place to reject it. It's not my decision to run away from everything that looks remotely like it could last. <br /><br />Even at my most unsure, I want to always be running <span style="font-style:italic;">toward</span> the arms of Christ. Toward grace. I want to run into a deeper understanding of the Gospel. <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjypEvTzE7n8w0B0zX_7GPPMF-1EbMYxrL2lR8QtZ_b1dgFbji5B9DTlGaPWb3PIXM0yyTIK0_X9D2Dm7Jv21auQ_Wh15QnDSCprEMiOmOY6Tb5gVivYOb0TgQFePmICwOosWxyIOP07NdM/s1600-h/2020059398_58664fa778_m.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 97px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjypEvTzE7n8w0B0zX_7GPPMF-1EbMYxrL2lR8QtZ_b1dgFbji5B9DTlGaPWb3PIXM0yyTIK0_X9D2Dm7Jv21auQ_Wh15QnDSCprEMiOmOY6Tb5gVivYOb0TgQFePmICwOosWxyIOP07NdM/s400/2020059398_58664fa778_m.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5442700838740612690" /></a>Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-58117297497841343122010-02-24T16:10:00.003-05:002010-02-24T16:11:50.873-05:00Clementines, finger-painting, inside jokes & baloney sandwiches.That sums up my entire Wednesday afternoon. :)Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220781035147483643.post-76107282762975361432010-02-23T14:30:00.011-05:002010-02-23T14:52:44.635-05:00Lead me to the rock that is higher than I.Every time someone else's life falls apart, I go straight to Psalm 61. I've been praying through it a lot, thinking about last semester and this summer and all the challenges that it will hold for my trust and my ego:<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">"Hear my cry, O God, listen to my prayer; from the end of the earth I call to you when my heart is faint. Lead me to the rock that is higher than I, for you have been my refuge, a strong tower against the enemy. Let me dwell in your tent forever! Let me take refuge under the shelter of your wings! For you, O God, have heard my vows; you have given me the heritage of those who fear your name. Prolong the life of the king; may his years endure to all generations! May he be enthroned forever before God; appoint steadfast love and faithfulness to watch over him! So will I ever sing praises to your name, as I perform my vows day after day."</span><br /><br />This is going to sound childish: For a long time it frustrated me that we, as Christians, are only called to love God and obey His commands. Actually, it still frustrates me. Every time my dad goes on a business trip he says the same thing: "Goodbye. Be good. Use your time well." Once after I read through the Epistles I threw my Bible across the room and yelled "THAT'S IT? BE GOOD AND USE MY TIME WELL? <span style="font-style:italic;">THAT'S</span> CHRISTIANITY?"<br /><br />I wanted something flashier. Something dangerous. Something adventurous. Saving the world. Martyrdom. Something challenging. Something that suited my personality and fed my ego and made me strong and showcased my tenacity and didn't challenge my pride in any way.<br /><br />Waiting on God is the hardest thing that my little, gritty, embittered self will ever do. Yes, I still want to get my hands dirty and minister to the people up Capitol Hill and in the backalleys of Chicago. I still want to lead. I still want to fight. I still want to take big personal risks for the sake of something bigger and more exciting than me. But ultimately, my life is not about how much <span style="font-style:italic;">I</span> can handle. In fact, the Gospel itself is about the sin and brokenness that I could not, cannot, and will never be able to handle without the grace and sacrifice of Jesus Christ.<br /><br />Every time I hear about more grief, more brokenness, more disillusionment, more despair, I think: "I want to <span style="font-style:italic;">fix</span> this. Yet I'm helpless." And Psalm 61 reminds me: "<span style="font-style:italic;">Duh. That's the point.</span>"Caroline Forsythehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01154808260778230468noreply@blogger.com2